Undefinable Relationship

Gone were the days that life was simpler.

Traditionally, we only know two status; single and married.

Just a simple choice between still looking for the right one and enjoying life as a SINGLE PERSON; not having any liability to any of your actions.

or someone who is settled in and has found or who thinks has found the right one.

Just a choice between Box A and BOX b.

But... in the ever changing world, even the status that we label our relationships multiplies and branches out. From simply checking box A or B it had spawned an array of choices. ITS COMPLICATED, MU, LIVE IN, FRENEMIES, FUBU, MOMOL, just to name a few.

With all this complications i couldn't help but to wonder, Why are we so obsessed in LABELS?

do we always have to validate ourselves in what we are doing or what we are not?

If we know that what we have is not definable by any standard why put up with all the drama?

Put it this way, A certain guy and a certain girl is so sweet to each other. they hold hands their inseparable and obviously in love and head over heels with each other. Then when you ask if their TOGETHER they'll answer "NO WERE JUST FRIENDS".

Question,When did intimacy became a trend to friends?

Lets just admit it we engage ourselves to this UNDEFINABLE RELATIONSHIPS cause were really afraid of carrying the burden of having labelled as a couple. Thats why we make other labels to compensate for it, WE MAKE EXCUSES for ourselves.