Undefinable Relationship

Gone were the days that life was simpler.

Traditionally, we only know two status; single and married.

Just a simple choice between still looking for the right one and enjoying life as a SINGLE PERSON; not having any liability to any of your actions.

or someone who is settled in and has found or who thinks has found the right one.

Just a choice between Box A and BOX b.

But... in the ever changing world, even the status that we label our relationships multiplies and branches out. From simply checking box A or B it had spawned an array of choices. ITS COMPLICATED, MU, LIVE IN, FRENEMIES, FUBU, MOMOL, just to name a few.

With all this complications i couldn't help but to wonder, Why are we so obsessed in LABELS?

do we always have to validate ourselves in what we are doing or what we are not?

If we know that what we have is not definable by any standard why put up with all the drama?

Put it this way, A certain guy and a certain girl is so sweet to each other. they hold hands their inseparable and obviously in love and head over heels with each other. Then when you ask if their TOGETHER they'll answer "NO WERE JUST FRIENDS".

Question,When did intimacy became a trend to friends?

Lets just admit it we engage ourselves to this UNDEFINABLE RELATIONSHIPS cause were really afraid of carrying the burden of having labelled as a couple. Thats why we make other labels to compensate for it, WE MAKE EXCUSES for ourselves.

For Now

You know how you always have to have a feel good song..

Well Here's mine its called FOR NOW from the broadway musical AVENUE Q.

Its talks about Life's ups and downs and how all of that is temporary.

I just love this song because it lifts me up and makes me realize a lot of stuff.

Listen to it :)

Once More with Feelings

Today, I got to thinking about avoidance.

Whenever we are hurt the initial reaction of a person is to shy away from the painful experience whether it be physical or even emotional pain.

Often times we try not to encounter that thing or person that cause us the suffering and those extra sleepless nights.

But i gotta ask...Why is it that no matter what detours you take, shortcuts you make, you still end up on the same road?

that same damn path that you tried for so long to forget and keep in that locked up Past closet.

Why do we keep on falling for the same things and traps. like a panic buyer in a retail rush

Are we really just ignorant people who instantly gets blinded with promises of wonderland?

The worst part about it is? you take the exact similar steps, mistakes and eventually the same heartbreaks. Its as if you never learned from that encounter to begin with.

Are we really this cruel to ourselves? letting us go over the same tragedy? again and again

Is it always has to be ONCE MORE WITH FEELINGS!!!??

Another Step

Got Credited For The Fashion Ed of Metro Magazine JULY ISSUE.

I THANK PATRICK GALANG FOR THE OPPORTUNITY.

The beautiful ANGELICA PANGANIBAN as cover girl

Beautiful Styling by Patrick Galang; and Amazing Photography by Seven Baretto

And thats my name right there.. though its misspelled i'm still so proud ..

im proud to be patrick's assistant

Please grab a copy of the issue.

Season of Emotional Downpour

For about three consecutive nights MANILA has been experiencing a whole lot of rain.

No more dry hot nights but cold wet ones ( sounded wrong hehe).

Floods will once again rule the roads and side streets of the metro.

So its official the season of emotional downpours has just arrived.

Here's a little something to set the mood.

Its so fitting for the season and even more fitting for those who gets EMO whenever the rain pours.

Seeing Ourselves

Everyday we look at ourselves in the mirror. Checking blemishes, fixing your hair, Brushing your teeth. Whatever it may be we still get the chance to glance upon ourselves.

As we do, we always try our hardest to look at who we are?

but I wonder, No matter how hard we squint, DO WE SEE WHO WE REALLY ARE?or is the MIRROR TOO FOGGED UP?

In context, Our Friends will always tell us in times of despair that they now us very well. That they see right trough our facades and the illusions we try to portray. but why is that its so easy for us to see our friends but so hard to look at ourselves?

Is it really just to easy to judge others than analyze ourselves?

If that is the case, then it must be true that we please other people more rather, than our own.

Genesis

They say that a journey starts with one single step and what better companion to the hike but a pair of fabulous pink boots.

This marks the genesis of the journey of the pink boots.

I'm giving birth to this blog because i wanted this to be like a writing therapy for me. A best friend of some sorts that will hear you out. a form of escape to moments of melancholy.

Here you will read about every emotion, every tear, every chuckle i make.

You'll read about my favorite things, my fashion finds, my favorite food, basically my life.

I know your going "why would i want to read about you?"

Because all of us admit it or not loves to read about other peoples lives.

just to compare how bad or good our lives our.

Enjoy reading about me, about my journey with my pink boots.